What are the risks of swinging?
As with almost everything we do in life, there are risks in being a swinger. Just as with our other activities, we can lessen the risks by taking a few simple steps.
The biggest risk of all is that you will have a great time and will never want to leave the lifestyle.
To reduce the physical risks
- Make sure you know some real facts about the person before you meet, such as their address or their phone number.
- Tell someone who you are meeting, just don`t tell them why!
- Meet in a public place, if you are uncomfortable with the person, leave
- Safest of all, meet in a swingers club. Everyone will protect you if any problems arise. If you like the person you can always meet again alone.
To reduce the emotional risks
- If you are a couple, never force your partner to join in the scene - it will probably lead to a break up in your relationship.
- Discuss what you are both happy doing before meeting anyone.
- Stick to what you agreed on when you start to play.
- Don't cheat on your partner.
- Don't exclude your partner from your fun.
- If either of you stops having fun - STOP swinging.